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Strategies to help you overcome conflict when co-parenting

On Behalf of | Jul 26, 2022 | Family Law

If you have divorced your children’s other parent and have agreed to co-parent, it’s only natural for conflict to occur from time to time. However, to ensure the health and well-being of your children, it’s a good idea to learn how to handle and overcome conflict.

While it can seem impossible in some situations, there are some tips you can use to reduce or avoid conflict when co-parenting.

Put your children first

Your children should always come first. Before talking to their other parent or making decisions with them, consider what’s best for your child. The goal should be to meet their needs and reach an agreement that will work to their benefit.

Leave the past in the past

As a co-parent, you need to focus on what is happening right now with your kids rather than what has happened in the past. If you focus on past arguments that led to your divorce, you may make decisions based on how you felt then rather than your children’s needs. Avoid this by focusing on the present and what is right for your kids.

Avoid making assumptions

When dealing with conflict, you may assume answers or reasons behind someone else’s actions. Even if you believe you know this person well, you can’t assume why they make certain decisions or take certain actions. Be sure to ask rather than assume to avoid conflict.

Achieving peaceful co-parenting

There are more than a few things to consider when it comes to co-parenting. By avoiding conflict, you can focus on what is best for your kids while keeping the peace. However, if the situation gets to a point where you need legal assistance, you have options.